STOP AND THINK By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest. (Confucius)

No doubt, we’ve all learned by all three of those methods. And some of those learning experiences have been very difficult, haven’t they? Why do we refuse to think before we act, to copy only those who are truly wise? When we don’t, we have to learn by sad experience. But there is another way.
 
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. (Proverbs 9:10)