To become someone you have never been, you must let go of who you have been till now. (Sam Adeyemi, motivational speaker)
There are probably many people who wish they could change their personality or image. They crave success, popularity, and an improved status in life. As much as we might like to be different, few of us are willing to make the changes necessary to become something that we are not at present. Change requires commitment and, maybe, help from someone else.
Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come (2 Corinthians 5:17).