A good character is the best tombstone. … Carve your name on hearts, not on marble. ( C. H. Spurgeon, 19th century British preacher)
How do you want to be remembered? What would you like people to say about you? That will be determined pretty much by the way you live, speak, and act before you die. And it will not be the words and actions so much as the attitude you displayed and your integrity. It’s a matter of what people thought you to be on the inside; that’s character.
The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity (Proverbs 11:3).