We do not remember days, we remember moments. (Cesare Pavese, late Italian novelist)

Husbands are often chided for forgetting their wife’s birthday or their anniversary. In their defense, regarding their wedding day, it could probably be argued that, while they do forget the date, they certainly do remember the occasion. And, really, that is far more significant, isn’t it? Perhaps the answer, husbands, is to celebrate more of your special moments throughout the year. 

For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. (Ephesians 5:23)