Love
If we love people even when they are unlovable, then we provide an opportunity for them to change. (Ken Blanchard, author and motivational speaker)
Wow! How do you love someone who is unlovable? Blanchard doesn’t tell us how, but he points to the benefit there is in doing so. It’s hard to help people change. Arguing rarely helps. Becoming angry only makes things worse. But if you show them unconditional love, you may be surprised at how they might change.
But I tell you, love your enemies. Pray for those who treat you badly (Matthew 5:44).