Daily Stop & Thinks

Character

Character is the one thing we make in this world and take with us into the next. ( William Hershey Davis, seminary professor)

Davis continues, “Reputation is what you have when you come to a new community; Character is what you have when you go away.” Reputation may precede you; people may have heard about you, so they have an idea of what you’re like. But after you’ve been around a while, your real character becomes known. Live in such a way that people will honor your memory.

May you always be filled with the fruit of your salvation—the righteous character produced in your life by Jesus Christ. (Philippians 1:11)

Relationships

Relationships — of all kinds — are like sand held in your hand. (Kahlil Jamison, leadership consultant)

She says: “Held loosely, with an open hand the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.” Treasure your relationships.

Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace. (Ephesians 4:3)

Obedience

Understanding can wait; obedience can’t. (Pastor Rick Warren, author)

Sometimes we don’t want to follow the boss’s order or a directive we don’t understand. Warren suggests, not only that we should obey right away whether we understand or not, but that “obedience unlocks understanding” In other words, when we do what we’re asked to do we very likely will come to understand the reasons why in due time. We must not wait to obey, because “Delayed obedience is no obedience at all.” Obedience should be a first response.

Jesus: “If you love me, obey my commandments.” (John 14:15)

Without delay I hurry to obey your commands. (Psalm 119:60)

Forgive

Letting go of grudges is not only good for your soul—it’s good for your health. (Heidi Raschke, attorney)

We all know how holding grudges affects both us and the person we’re mad at. If we can learn to forgive, getting rid of bitterness, there can be all kinds of benefits. Restoration with the other person, for example; he or she is relieved of a heaviness. Then, we have not only a restored relationship, but, as Raschke suggests, we will feel better physically and spiritually.

Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against a fellow . . . but love your neighbor as yourself. (Leviticus 19:18)

Satisfied

Two things define you: your patience when you have nothing, and your attitude when you have everything. (Iman Ali, actress)

No doubt, we’ve all had experience in similar extremes. We can remember those days when there was not enough income to meet the bills. We had very little patience in waiting for the next check to come. There may have been times, also, when we seemed to have all we needed—and then some. Were we satisfied? Or, was our attitude always wishing for more?

Human desire is never satisfied. (Proverbs 27:20)

Don’t love money; be satisfied with what you have. For God has said, “I will never fail you. I will never abandon you.” (Hebrews 13:5)

Doing Our Best

If you can do what you do best and be happy, you are further along in life than most people (Leonardo DiCaprio, American actor)

Some people never seem to be happy in doing what they’re doing, whether it’s working at a job, studying at school, or practicing some sport or art. Others find joy in those things but always seem to be looking for something more satisfying. If you enjoy what you’re doing, keep at it. You’re not like others who never seem satisfied and are always looking for something else.

I don’t just do what is best for me; I do what is best for others so that many may be saved. (1 Corinthians 10:33)

Purpose

History never looks like history when you are living through it. (John W. Gardner, late U.S. cabinet member)

Sometimes commentators say that we’re living in historic times. In reality, of course, all times are historic times—some more so than others, perhaps. If you look back over your lifetime, you will realize that some of those times you remember were historic, indeed. That thought should challenge each of us to live as if we’re involved in making history somehow. Live with purpose!

Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other . . . and working together with one mind and purpose. (Philippians 2:2)

Serving

Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth. (Muhammad Ali, late boxing champion)

Ali’s statement may not be a new or unusual philosophical pronouncement. In fact, it’s quite simple and does suggest a sound life principle. We are not alone on this planet nor are we designed to live in isolation. So, our interaction with others should not be one-sided, always looking out only for our own interests. Serving others is a rewarding pursuit.

You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh ; rather, serve one another humbly in love. (Galatians 5:13)

Patience

Waiting is as necessary as planting and fertilizing. (Charles Swindoll, pastor, author)

Swindoll writes of the little boy who plants the seed and then nervously digs it up every day to see if it is growing. That’s the impatience of youth, but it’s not unlike many of us who just “can’t wait” for the results of our hard work. Every worthwhile project requires careful planning, thorough working out of the plan, and patience. Don’t rush! Plan, pray, and expect!

We prove ourselves by our purity, our understanding, our patience, our kindness. . . and by our sincere love. (2 Corinthians 6:16)

Others

You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view. (Harper Lee, author)

Author Toni Sorenson put it another way: “Walking a mile in someone else’s shoes isn’t as much about the walk or the shoes; it’s to be able to think like they think, feel what they feel, and understand why they are who and where they are. Every step is about empathy.” Look in the Bible for all the texts about how to treat “one another.” It can change your life.

God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another. (1 Peter 4:10)

Teamwork

Many of us are more capable than some of us . . . but none of us is as capable as all of us. (Tom Wilson, professional athlete)

Who would know better about teamwork than an athlete? He or she may be a star, but each is dependent on the support of their teammates to be successful in winning. Even the winner in solo competitions (e.g. gymnastics or golfers) owes success in part to coaches, teachers, encouraging family, friends, and fans. Share your success with those who’ve made it possible.

The one who plants and the one who waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded for their own hard work. (1 Corinthians 3:8)

Opportunity

If you believe it will work out, you’ll see opportunities. If you believe it won’t, you will see obstacles. (Wayne Dyer, self-help author)

According to Dyer, the mind-set and attitude you bring to a project will play a large part in its success or failure. Mr. Optimist is always hopeful; to him nothing ever seems as daunting as it does to Mr. Pessimist.  No matter the difficulty of the task, how you approach it just might be half the battle. Don’t just look for opportunities, expect them!

When troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy. (James 1:2)