Daily Stop & Thinks

To become someone you have never been, you must let go of who you have been till now. (Sam Adeyemi, motivational speaker)

There are probably many people who wish they could change their personality or image. They crave success, popularity, and an improved status in life. As much as we might like to be different, few of us are willing to make the changes necessary to become something that we are not at present. Change requires commitment and, maybe, help from someone else.

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder. (E.B. White, writer and grammarian)

100 years ago today, the U.S. Congress established Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona. It includes the Grand Canyon, a gorge of the Colorado River, considered to be one of the major natural wonders of the world. Such a wonder ought to open our hearts to the one who created it. Gerry Spence wrote, “I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.”

Great and marvelous are your works, O Lord God, the Almighty (Revelation 15:3).

To be good, and to do good, is all we have to do. (John Adams, 2^nd U.S. President)

This is Presidents’ Day in the U.S., a day to honor the men who have led our country for more than two centuries. Adams’ comment may be over-simplified but it’s certainly worth considering. To do good is a worthy purpose, but it can hardly be done consistently unless there is strong, ethical character behind it. Be sure to care for your “inner person”; be good to do good.

Never get tired of doing good (2 Thessalonians 3:13). At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up (Galatians 6:9).

Success is focusing the full power of all you are on what you have a burning desire to achieve. (Wilfred Peterson, late author and columnist)

There are many definitions of success, and this one could be helpful if you’re hesitating to move forward on a project you’ve dreamed about. Peterson would probably ask, “How serious are you about it? Are you really passionate to see it done?” If not, maybe it’s better to move on to something else. To succeed, you must give it your all, so examine your heart and move on.

Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires (Psalm 37:4).

You will never influence someone who doesn’t first feel accepted by you. (Mike Lee, pastor)

If your employee, student, or companion feels that you don’t regard him or her as a valued person with ability, you will certainly not be able to affect them much. Positive influence must begin with a positive relationship. As we’ve noted before “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care” (Jack Kemp).

Don’t lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example. (1 Peter 5:3)

Not everyone has the opportunity to peep behind the curtain . . .  (George Washington)

Some people seem to think they have the right to make judgments on just about anyone or anything that happens. Not only do they think they know what’s gone on “behind the curtain,” they comment on it all. They always know better and think they have the “right” answers. It would be better to withhold judgment until we have all the facts that we can’t always know.

The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged (Matthew 7:2). Whatever else you do, develop good judgment (Proverbs 4:7).

You can learn many things from children. How much patience you have, for instance. (Franklin P. Jones, author)

Jones may have hit a sore spot for some of us. Children’s behavior can be exasperating at times. We might show a little tolerance with adults when their conduct displeases us, but when our children (or our neighbors’ kids) throw a tantrum, we can so easily lose patience. Perhaps, they are intended to be our testing ground to determine how well we are growing in endurance.

We prove ourselves by our purity, our understanding, our patience, our kindness . . . and by our sincere love (2 Corinthians 6:6).

“Those with no plan are being influenced by other people’s plan . . .” (Chaim O’Deens, leadership & planning coach)

On the other hand, O’Deens concludes “. . . while those who have created the time to establish a plan are influencing those with no plans.” So, you are either working your own plan or someone else’s. That thought ought to help us realize the importance of creating our own plan to pursue and achieve the goals we want for our family and community.

Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity. . . . Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed. (Proverbs 21:5; 16:3)

He has half the deed done who has made a beginning. (Oliver Wendell Holmes, 19^th century physician and poet)

It’s called inertia, that is, things at rest tend to stay at rest. Sometimes it’s hard to get started on a project we know we should be working on. Actually, inertia also describes the tendency of things in motion to continue in motion. So, Holmes’ words should encourage us to get up and set our project in motion. As he says, half the battle is won at that point.

Finishing is better than starting. (Ecclesiastes 7:8). Now you should finish what you started (2 Corinthians 8:11).

To succeed in your mission, you must have single-minded devotion to your goal. (A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, late president of India)

We seem to admire people who can “multi-task.” They appear to be able to do a number of things at the same time, or be involved in a variety of projects with a measure of success in all of them. That doesn’t work for most of us. We probably will do better if we follow Kalam’s counsel. If we concentrate on one primary goal, we’ll more likely succeed.

I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race (Philippians 4:13-14).

We have complete control over our own attitude. We are the ones who decide how we feel, how we look at things, how we react. (Catherine Pulsifer, author)

There are few things in life that we can actually control. We can’t do much about the weather, taxes, or circumstances, for example. But, as Pulsifer reminds us, there is one very important element in our lives that we do control—our attitude. We have to learn how to take control of our attitudes in order to live peacefully with ourselves and others.

Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude (1 Peter 3:8).

There is no success without sacrifice. (Adoniram Judson, pioneer missionary to India)

Judson, “If you succeed without sacrifice, it is because someone has suffered before you. If you sacrifice without success, it is because someone will succeed after.” To sacrifice is to give up something of value to benefit someone else. You may succeed by your own effort or someone else’s before or after you. In any case, be willing to sacrifice for the benefit of others.

And don’t forget to do good and to share with those in need. These are the sacrifices that please God (Hebrews 13:16).