Daily Stop & Thinks

Misunderstood

To be great is to be misunderstood. (Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19th century essayist)

If you’ve been misunderstood, you’re not alone. Emerson lists some misunderstood influential people: Pythagoras, Socrates, Jesus, Luther, Copernicus, Galileo, and Newton. He adds, “. . . and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh.” So, don’t let people who misunderstand you stand in the way of moving forward.

[The purpose of Solomon’s words] is . . .  to help them understand the insights of the wise . . .  to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives,  to help them do what is right, just, and fair (Proverbs 1:2-3).

Attitude

Good leaders are never complainers. They’re doers. (John Maxwell, leadership author)

Has there ever been a time where there has been so much complaining? People groan about the weather, their bosses’ unfairness, their children’s coaches who don’t let them play enough—the list is unending. Rather than being judgmental and complaining, taking a positive attitude will go a long way to make life more pleasant for everyone.

Do everything without complaining and arguing, so that no one can criticize you (Philippians 2:14-15).

Complainers and grumblers are people who live only to satisfy their desires (Paraphrase of Jude 1:16).

Teamwork

That which is not in the interest of the hive is not in the interest of the bee. (Marcus Aurelius, 2nd century Roman emperor)

It’s an ancient thought but what a great metaphor it is for the 21st century as well as the 2nd century. Bees and the bee hive are wonderful examples of the way teamwork was meant to be. The hundreds (thousands?) of worker bees cooperate instinctively to provide a single goal: produce honey. There’s no “I” (or “B”) in team.

Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other . . . working together with one mind and purpose (Philippians 2:2).

Hypocrisy

While it’s easy to spot hypocrisy in others, it’s much harder to see it in ourselves. (Michael Lockstampfor, creative media pastor)

If we’re honest, we’ll probably agree with the quotation. But, why is that true; why do we make such unfair judgments? Lockstampfor answers: “That’s because we judge ourselves by our intentions and other people by their actions.” We know that our intentions are right (at least in our own minds), but we judge others only on what we see, not what they might have intended.

Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. For you will be treated as you treat others. The standard you use in judging is the standard by which you will be judged (Matthew 7:1-2).

Honesty

Golf is a game in which you yell “fore,” shoot six, and write down five. (Paul Harvey, late radio commentator)

It’s a clever play on words that golfers will understand immediately. “Fudging” on your golf score may be an accepted practice when you’re just playing a game and everyone understands what’s going on. But, what does it say about the condition of one’s character. The underlying moral is honesty or integrity. If you cheat in golf or tiddlywinks, will you do worse in real life?

If you are dishonest in little things, you won’t be honest with greater responsibilities. (Luke 16:10).

Opportunity

I will study and prepare, and someday my opportunity will come. (Abraham Lincoln, 16th President of the United States)

They say that opportunity knocks only once. Whether that is true or not, the two key words in Honest Abe’s quote are study and prepare. A lot of people are wishing for that great chance to come their way, but will they be ready when it comes? We would do well to practice the Boy Scouts’ motto, “Be Prepared,” which might involve some additional learning.

So prepare your minds for action (1 Peter 1:13).

Waiting

Let there be silence. Silence is the training wheels of a good deep discussion. (Jack Brown, pastor)

Brown says, “Sometimes an awkward amount of time is required. But without it, some may never speak up.” It’s awkward, isn’t it, when the teacher asks a question to provoke discussion and no one speaks up? Trainers say that if you wait 20 seconds, someone will respond. But, it’s hard to wait, so we sometimes jump in too soon. Being patient will bring good involvement.

Understand this . . . You must all be quick to listen (James 1:19).

Character

It must happen IN you before it can happen THROUGH you! (Timothy Kight, Elementary school teacher)

This is an important lesson for adults as well as children. After all, what you ARE is more important than what you DO. Why? Because what you are determines what you do and what you do shows what you are. Is that so hard to understand? Preparing yourself intellectually and spiritually is essential to living a life of value and purpose.

For as he thinks in his heart, so is he (Proverbs 23:7).

Planning

By failing to prepare, you’re preparing to fail. (Benjamin Franklin)

Some folks really like to be spontaneous; they don’t like to plan too far ahead. Life is more exciting, they think, when you don’t know exactly what’s coming up next. Sometimes, however, they discover too late that a little advanced planning would have saved them from pain or loss. Better to plan carefully and allow for the unexpected.

Commit your actions to the Lord, and your plans will succeed. . . Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity (Proverbs 16:3; 21:5).

Balance

The amazing activity of the cat is delicately balanced by his capacity for relaxation. (William Lyon Phelps, 19th-20th century author and critic)

You might often see a cat lazing in the sun’s rays while all kinds of activity may be going on around it. At other times, the cat could be chasing the dust in the sun’s ray or a loose thread or string. Which picture characterizes you? Will you be known as the person who is comfortable, relaxing with a book or rushing from one task to another? Can it be both?

Be still, and know that I am God! (Psalm 46:10).

So prepare your minds for action (1 Peter 1:13).

Comparison

Comparison is the thief of joy. (Theodore Roosevelt, 26th US President)

It’s a simple statement, but certainly conveys an important and practical lesson. It can work both ways. Do you lose your joy when you see someone doing so much better than you do? Or do you become proud at another’s failure, thinking you could do it better? Both views are destructive, and both reveal a misunderstanding of true joy.  

I pray that . . .  you will keep on growing in knowledge and understanding (Philippians 1:9).

Be joyful. Grow to maturity (2 Corinthians 13:11).

Freedom

Nothing is more wonderful than the art of freedom, but nothing is harder to learn how to use than freedom. (Alexis de Tocqueville, 19th century French historian)

Americans are proud of their liberty, which was gained for them by the heavy price of war and the sacrifice of many who fought to gain and maintain it. We rejoice in our freedom, but we also have seen how it can be abused when everyone does what seems right to them, to use the biblical observation. (You can read the disastrous results in the Book of Judges.)

Everyone did what was right in his own eyes (Judges 21:25).