Daily Stop & Thinks

Associate with men of good quality if you esteem your own reputation; for it is better to be alone than in bad company. (George Washington, 1^st president of the United States)

We were created to be social people. God said that it was not good for man to be alone, so He provided a wife for Adam. Ever since, mankind has enjoyed close relationships, some more intimate than others. As Washington, points out, however, we must be on guard about associations with those whose character and intentions are not for our benefit.

A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold (Proverbs 22:1).

If you believe you can, you probably can. If you believe you won’t, you most assuredly won’t. (Denis Waitley, motivational speaker)

Self-confidence is a characteristic of most successful people. Folks who are unsure of their abilities rarely step “out of the box” to try something new even if they are sure of the soundness of their intentions. Perhaps self-assurance is the result of confidence, not only in your product or idea, but in the One who created and gifted you to be the person you are.

Blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him (Jeremiah 17:7).

We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope. (Martin Luther King, Jr, 20^th century civil rights leader)

Everyone faces disappointment at one time or another—maybe multiple times. Experience has taught us, however, that we do get over those setbacks; they usually diminish over time. And, as King reminds us, there is always hope if it is placed in the appropriate resource. We must not hope in the temporal but in what lies beyond, in the eternal One.

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope (Romans 15:13).

Live your beliefs and you can turn the world around. (Henry David Thoreau, 19^th century American essayist)

Everyone has a belief system of some kind. Some believe in magic, horoscopes, or palm-reading. Others trust in education, research, and study. Thoreau emphasizes the importance of sticking to your foundational belief system and living it out. No doubt, that’s important, but the essential question must deal with the veracity of your worldview.

The simple believe anything, but the prudent give thought to their steps (Proverbs 14:15). Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God (1 John 4:1).

Don’t get upset when people say bad things about you. You are much worse then they know. (Charles Spurgeon, the “Prince of Preachers”)

Wow, we don’t want to hear things like that, do we? Do others really know what is in our hearts and minds? We too often hear in the news about mild-mannered, polite neighbors who turn about to be predators or terrorists. We must examine our own hearts to be sure our motives and actions are not self-centered and inclined toward evil.

The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it? (Jeremiah 17:9 )

Our abundance leads to a dull joylessness which settles over us and empties our lives. (Darryl Tippens, distinguished scholar)

“The more you have, the happier you can be” seems to be the mantra of our age. We live as if the accumulation of things is really the goal of life. Look at our over-stuffed garages and storage sheds. Perhaps we should consider Tippens’ observation more carefully. Do we have so much we can’t enjoy it? Have we lost our sense of value and appreciation?

Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things (Colossians 3:2).

[Poems] teach us what it means to be human. (Amy Julia Becker, writer, speaker)

Becker wrote, “Poetry is useless. Poetry is without use, but it is valuable. . . . Although [the words of a poem] may not provide or produce clothing or shelter or food, they nonetheless convey beauty and meaning, truth and transcendence.” What a wonderful blessing it is to have creative minds that provide comfort and often add beauty and challenge to life.

My heart is stirred by a noble theme as I recite my verses for the king; my tongue is the pen of a skillful writer (Psalm 45:1).

One who looks for a friend without faults will have none. (Hasidic saying)

There are at least two lessons to be learned from this saying. First, there are no “perfect” people, so it’s a waste of time to hope to find such friends. Second, since that is true, we’re not perfect ourselves, so who would want us to be their friend? True friends recognize one another’s faults but find companionship in helping each other become better people. 

Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice (Proverbs 27:9).

Your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing. (Abraham Lincoln, 16^th president of the United States)

When you think of all the failures Lincoln experienced, you marvel at his persistence in keeping at it. He lost numerous elections, was considered an inadequate administrator and a second-rate orator. Yet, his achievements in becoming and serving as the U.S. president during the Civil War are a testimony to his perseverance and doggedness.

Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything (James 1:4).

This is the true joy in life—being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one. (George Bernard Shaw, 19^th-20^th century Irish playwright

Sometimes others may think very highly of something we’ve done or achieved, even when we haven’t thought it was all that great. Real satisfaction comes from achieving some work or goal that we feel is of great significance—something we’ve worked hard to accomplish because of the personal value we placed on its achievement.

I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me (Philippians 3:14).

A human being’s moral integrity begins when he is prepared to sacrifice his life for his convictions. (Dietrich Bonhoeffer, German theologian and author)

As a prisoner in his own country during World War II, Bonheoffer’s faith was put to the test. Was his trust in God sufficient to enable him to endure the imprisonment and, ultimately, execution as a traitor to his country? Yes, for he also wrote, “Being a Christian is less about cautiously avoiding sin than about courageously and actively doing God’s will.”

For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good (1 Peter 3:17; 4:19).

There is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs. (Zig Ziglar, motivational speaker and author)

Elevators and escalators are welcome inventions for many reasons. Climbing stairs can be exhausting, but Ziglar’s observation is an important reminder to many of us 21^st century workers. We need to realize that hard work, like climbing stairs, is required to reach our higher, worthy goals.

Those who work their land will have abundant food. All hard work brings a profit (Proverbs 12:11; 14:23).