Daily Stop & Thinks

Age is not a particularly interesting subject. Anyone can get old. All you have to do is live long enough. (Groucho Marx, 20^th century comedian and actor)

We joke a lot about age and growing old, but it’s a fact of life; if you’re alive, you’re aging. But, as Chili Davis (baseball player and coach) says, “Growing old is mandatory—growing up is optional.” There’s a lot to learn and a lot to do during one’s allotted years, so we would do well to pay attention to how we live more than how long.

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom (Psalm 90:12).

In a controversy, the instant we feel anger, we have already ceased striving for truth and have begun striving for ourselves. (Abraham J. Heschel, 20^th century Polish-born American rabbi)

When we’re having an argument about serious issues, it’s difficult not to become angry, isn’t it? We are so sure we are right that we sometimes just don’t control our emotions. We seem to think that truth needs us to defend it, but most often, we’re really just defending ourselves. When we learn to control our emotions, we’ll be better defenders of the truth.

For as churning cream produces butter, and as twisting the nose produces blood, so stirring up anger produces strife (Proverbs 30:33).

The most important strategy in your personal life is to have one—a personal life, that is. (Karen Saakvitne & Laurie Pearlman, counselors and authors)

It is sometimes true of counselors, pastors, preachers, teachers, and therapists that they are so wrapped up in their clients’ issues, they rarely take time for their own health and emotional needs. That often leads to burn out and breakdowns. People need to get away from everyday work occasionally, for they were designed for times of rest and restoration.

There remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God’s rest also rests from their works, just as God did from his (Hebrews 4:9-10).

Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets. (Paul Tournier, 20^th century Swiss physician and author)

Sometime, we may be asked if we can keep a secret. If we say we can, we may be told something that we’ll have a hard time keeping to ourselves. On the other hand, we may want to share our secret with someone, but for one reason or another we just can’t share it. Then, we may feel isolated because we’re carrying our burden alone. That’s hard and lonely!

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ (Galatians 6:2).

I believe in the sun even when it isn’t shining. I believe in love even when I’m alone. (Graffiti found on a cellar wall where Jews hid during World War II)

The last line was: “And I believe in God even when He is silent.” Even on those dark, dreary, cloudy days when we can’t see the sun, we know it is still shining above the clouds. In times when you’re separated form the ones you love, you still are assured of their love. How heartening it is to know that God is still in control even when there are few signs of it.

We eagerly await a Savior from [heaven] . . . who, [has] power that enables him to bring everything under his control (Philippians 3:20, 21).

Freedom consists not in doing what we like, but in having the right to do what we ought. [Pope John Paul II]

Americans are usually quite proud of the freedoms they enjoy in this republic. Christians enjoy, as well, the freedoms offered to them in the gospel. In both cases, people sometimes abuse their liberty, thinking that they can do whatever they want to do whenever and wherever they feel like it. We would do well to heed the Pope’s reminder.

Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil (1 Peter 2:16).

To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing. (Aristotle, 4^th century B.C. Greek philosopher)

That warning says a lot about today’s society, doesn’t it? People seem to be so opinionated and judgmental that almost anything you say to them will be criticized—justly or unjustly. Oh, that life were different, but it often isn’t. So, as we strive to avoid unnecessary confrontation, we must not be afraid to speak the truth always in appropriate ways.

These are the things you are to do: Speak the truth to each other, and render true and sound judgment in your courts (Zechariah 8:16).

[Hard work is] the price we’ll have to pay to achieve any goal. (Vince Lombardi, renowned football coach)

We used to speak about the “lazy days of summer,” but it seems that idleness has become almost endemic among certain groups of people who have not been required to earn their way. What a shame! Not only do they lose out on the personal benefits of work, but they won’t have the joy of successful achievement brought about by their own efforts.

Lazy people want much but get little, but those who work hard will prosper (Proverbs 13:4)

Just as icebergs show only a fraction of themselves above the surface, so events are always more than they appear to be at first glance. (John R. Claypool, late theologian and author)

To spot an iceberg from the deck of an ocean liner is a frightening experience. After all, you would be seeing only a small portion of the dangerous ice floe, and you are relying on the ship’s captain to steer clear of the danger. We can’t see the future, but we must not fear it. In the end, many events will turn out to be more joyful and beneficial than harmful.

For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

The best prayers often have more groans than words. (John Bunyan, 17^th century English writer and preacher)

We may think that the only effective prayers are those offered in highly liturgical services with elevated prose and moving sentiment. Indeed, such prayers can be uplifting to those who hear them. But prayer is having a conversation with God. Even when we do not have the words to express our need, God understands what’s in our hearts.

We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans (Romans 8:26).

People willing to trade their freedom for security will receive neither. (Benjamin Franklin, patriot, inventor, author)

In our danger-ridden world, many people are so frightened that security has become the all-important issue of life. For them, the price for guaranteed safety is never too high. Had that been the attitude of America’s patriots in the late 18^th century, what do you suppose life would be like for us today? Let’s strive to be safe and to maintain our right to freedom.

In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety (Psalm 4:8).

No one wants to fail, and my job was to help those around me be successful. If they were successful I would be successful. (Davis Illingworth, Jr, businessman, author)

In the self-centered attitude of so many today, personal success is their life’s goal. Too often, it’s of little concern to them how many people may be hurt or “run over” in their climb up the corporate ladder. Illingworth’s comment is a reminder of how to make both parties successful.

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others (Philippians 2:3-4).