Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you.
(Don Miguel Ruiz, Mexican author and spiritualist)
Our natural tendency is to take everything very personally. We quickly think that what others do or say is about us. Occasionally, that is true, but, in reality, others are responsible for their own thoughts and deeds, and we should respond always with grace.
A prayer to God: Then hear from heaven, your dwelling place. Forgive, and deal with each man according to all he does, since you know his heart. (2 Chronicles 6:30)