GOD OF HOPE

Daily Stop & Thinks

June 10, 2016

People don’t do what you expect but what you inspect. (Louis V. Gerstner, Jr, American businessman)

Many have discovered this truth through bad experiences. We’ve asked someone to do something for us, and we expected them to do it. Asking once, however, is often not enough. We must follow up our request by checking to see if it has been done. And then, we may have to check further to see if it was done properly. Follow-through is vital for success.

Moses inspected the work and saw that they had done it just as the Lord had commanded (Exodus 39:43).

June 9, 2016

We praise a man who feels angry on the right grounds and against the right persons and also in the right manner at the right moment and for the right length of time. (Aristotle, 4th century B.C. Greek philosopher)

There is such a thing as “righteous indignation,” although a lot of people use that excuse when they’ve simply lost their temper over some supposed offense. Aristotle argues that proper anger has a sound basis, is targeted at the correct offender, is offered in a courteous manner, and is not prolonged. That’s quite a basis to measure our anger against, isn’t it?

Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. (James 1:19-20)

June 8, 2016

Those [persons who] are too smart to engage in politics are punished by being governed by those who are dumber. (Plato, classical Greek philosopher)

A lot of attention is focused on politics during this election year in the U.S., and some are turned off by the demeaning dialogue that they hear and read. We may want to give up on it all, but good citizens will do their duty by examining the issues and voting their conscience. Above all, we must continually pray for government officials at every level.

 I urge . . . that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness (1 Timothy 2:1-2).

June 7, 2016

The most worthwhile things in life often only come to flower over a long period of time. (Alistair Begg, pastor and author)

Someone else has said, “Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.” When we plant a seed, we’d like to see the flower or the fruit quickly. But, life isn’t that way. We need to plan well, work hard, be persistent, and live patiently and actively in anticipation of the harvest that will come and the joy it will bring.

See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains (James 5:7).

June 6, 2016

Keep only those things that speak to your heart. Then take the plunge and discard all the rest. (Marie Kondo, Japanese organizing consultant and author)

You may not be disposed to hang on to things from the past, but many are. They just can’t let go of their parents’ or even grandparents’ heirlooms. But things demand time and attention and if they’re valuable, insurance and protection. So, chose those things that mean the most to you and “discard the rest,” as Kondo suggests. You’ll enjoy the freedom.

Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don’t have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless—like chasing the wind (Ecclesiastes 6:9).

June 5, 2016

Common sense is in spite of, not as the result of education. (Victor Hugo, 19th century novelist and dramatist)

Hugo certainly was not against education, however. He also said, “He who opens a school door, closes a prison.” Formal education is important, of course, but it must include more than mere head knowledge. Practical experience, trial by error, and hands-on learning are all essential elements in developing both common sense and wisdom.

Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge (Proverbs 23:12.)

June 4, 2016

There is no future in any job. The future lies in the person who holds the job. (George Crane, columnist)

This is commencement time, and graduates are eager to find just the right job, the one that promises security and a successful future. In reality, of course, though having the job that you’re truly fitted for is important, the critical issue is the employee. The job’s success depends more on the character and persistence of the worker than the job description.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11).

June 3, 2016

If you buy what you don’t need you might have to sell what you do. (Irish proverb)

Our desire for instant gratification sometimes leads us to credit card purchases or taking out a loan to buy something. The promise of an improved model makes ours seem inferior and we hasten to replace it. Suddenly, we’ve overextend ourselves. It’s wise to stop and think before you spend what you don’t have for something you don’t really need.

Whoever loves money never has enough; whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income (Ecclesiastes 5:10).

Trusting Can Hurt

Trust is supposed to be one of those “happy feelings” or good vibes. It’s a term that gets thrown around easily. I know I am guilty of the, “just trust me…” approach.

 

What do you mean trusting can hurt?

 

There are many stories and quotes about pain making people stronger or building character. One of my favorite quotes is from Batman Begins: “Why do we fall down? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.”

 

But doesn’t it sometimes feel like enough is enough? We think we go through things that build us up, so we pick ourselves up, but then comes something else. You think you might be there, that you are finally walking on the greener grass, but there is always something more to learn.

 

One of those things is trust. Trusting God and others can hurt. Not because it actually may hurt, or create hurt in the way of doing something insensitive, but because it is uncomfortable. It can create a place where we don’t want to go mentally or emotionally, but we must in order to trust. 

 

I have written in the past about my divorce and life as a single dad, but the last couple years have brought much more into my life than that. God brought a special girl back into my life who I hadn’t seen in more than 11 years. What started as friendship turned into much more over two years. During that time, I had to trust her, trust in my abilities to love another, trust emotions, and trust the process of being with someone again. It was hard! It was what I wanted, but that doesn’t mean that it came easily. I had to question myself, deal with uncomfortable fears, and push past the hurt that can resurface in those places.

 

In the end, the hope that trust produces is worth the discomfort. We truly do get to pick ourselves back up, but when you do it through trust in God or in someone else, there is a hand extended to help you get back up. That is the HOPE that comforts us.

June 2, 2016

A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for. (John A Shedd, author)

Have you ever admired the huge boats moored at a seaside marina? Those big yachts are really impressive, aren’t they? You could enjoy just living on one even if it never set out to sea. But that’s not what they’re built for, is it? Likewise, finding a safe, comfortable place to settle is not what life is all about. Set sail to achieve a meaningful purpose in your journey.

It is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose (Philippians 2:13).

June 1, 2016

Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad. (Miles Kington, journalist)

Have you ever known someone who seemed very intelligent—had a lot of knowledge, but didn’t seem to make sense of the simplest things in life? With the unlimited information available through the Internet, it’s all too easy to gain lots of knowledge but not have a clear understanding about how to best use it for personal and community benefit.

Wisdom is a shelter as money is a shelter, but the advantage of knowledge is this: Wisdom preserves those who have it (Ecclesiastes 7:12).

May 31, 2016

You can tell how big a person is by what it takes to discourage him (Nubiagroup.blogspot).

Some people seem to be in a bad mood most of the time. They are discouraged almost to the point of depression. And when you discover what it is that has discouraged them, you may find it is only a very small issue. How encouraging it is to meet people who are rarely despondent because they think positively and don’t let the little things slow them down.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9).