GOD OF HOPE

Daily Stop & Thinks

Trusting Can Hurt

Trust is supposed to be one of those “happy feelings” or good vibes. It’s a term that gets thrown around easily. I know I am guilty of the, “just trust me…” approach.

 

What do you mean trusting can hurt?

 

There are many stories and quotes about pain making people stronger or building character. One of my favorite quotes is from Batman Begins: “Why do we fall down? So we can learn to pick ourselves up.”

 

But doesn’t it sometimes feel like enough is enough? We think we go through things that build us up, so we pick ourselves up, but then comes something else. You think you might be there, that you are finally walking on the greener grass, but there is always something more to learn.

 

One of those things is trust. Trusting God and others can hurt. Not because it actually may hurt, or create hurt in the way of doing something insensitive, but because it is uncomfortable. It can create a place where we don’t want to go mentally or emotionally, but we must in order to trust. 

 

I have written in the past about my divorce and life as a single dad, but the last couple years have brought much more into my life than that. God brought a special girl back into my life who I hadn’t seen in more than 11 years. What started as friendship turned into much more over two years. During that time, I had to trust her, trust in my abilities to love another, trust emotions, and trust the process of being with someone again. It was hard! It was what I wanted, but that doesn’t mean that it came easily. I had to question myself, deal with uncomfortable fears, and push past the hurt that can resurface in those places.

 

In the end, the hope that trust produces is worth the discomfort. We truly do get to pick ourselves back up, but when you do it through trust in God or in someone else, there is a hand extended to help you get back up. That is the HOPE that comforts us.

June 2, 2016

A ship in harbor is safe, but that is not what ships are built for. (John A Shedd, author)

Have you ever admired the huge boats moored at a seaside marina? Those big yachts are really impressive, aren’t they? You could enjoy just living on one even if it never set out to sea. But that’s not what they’re built for, is it? Likewise, finding a safe, comfortable place to settle is not what life is all about. Set sail to achieve a meaningful purpose in your journey.

It is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose (Philippians 2:13).

June 1, 2016

Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is a fruit; wisdom is not putting it in a fruit salad. (Miles Kington, journalist)

Have you ever known someone who seemed very intelligent—had a lot of knowledge, but didn’t seem to make sense of the simplest things in life? With the unlimited information available through the Internet, it’s all too easy to gain lots of knowledge but not have a clear understanding about how to best use it for personal and community benefit.

Wisdom is a shelter as money is a shelter, but the advantage of knowledge is this: Wisdom preserves those who have it (Ecclesiastes 7:12).

May 31, 2016

You can tell how big a person is by what it takes to discourage him (Nubiagroup.blogspot).

Some people seem to be in a bad mood most of the time. They are discouraged almost to the point of depression. And when you discover what it is that has discouraged them, you may find it is only a very small issue. How encouraging it is to meet people who are rarely despondent because they think positively and don’t let the little things slow them down.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9).

May 30, 2016

A girl’s true beauty is the reflection of her inner happiness. (Anon.)

In today’s society outward beauty seems to be at a premium. Advertisements in print and TV commercials exalt the pretty face and the perfect body, but very little is said or pictured about the real person. Not what does she (or he) look like, but what kind of personality and character is seen by their conduct. After all, beauty is only skin deep. Happiness is internal.

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight (1 Peter 3:3-4).

May 29, 2016

Darkness is the absence of light. Evil is the absence of good. (quoted by Tom Roy, author, sports coach)

Those comments are both obvious and significant. But the preacher whom Roy quoted went on to say, “What about words? Silence is the absence of love.” Many people regret that their father (or maybe their mother) never said, “I love you.” We all need not only the acts of love but the comfort of reassuring words of love. Tell your family today that you love them.

Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor (1 Peter 2:17).I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me (Proverbs 8:17)

May 28, 2016

Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will always find a way around law. (Plato, classical Greek philosopher)

Readers Digest used to have a column titled “There Ought to Be a Law” that included common complaints that someone thought could be resolved by making appropriate laws. Well, we have plenty of laws of all kinds, but there still are a lot of law-breakers. People with moral character, however, can live honorably without excessive regulations.

Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge (2 Peter 1:5).

High Jump

“Throw your heart over the bar.”

 

A young athlete was having trouble jumping over a high bar. The track coach put his arm around the boy’s shoulder and said, “Son, you can do it, and this is how. Throw your heart over the bar, and your body will follow.”

 

The heart is the center of all things. Putting fire in your heart will allow you to go where you want to go and be who you want to be. Throw your trust in God over the bar and your life will follow, taking you places you had never dreamed and accomplishing things you thought impossible.

 

“Love the LORD your God, walk in his ways, obey his commands, hold firmly to him, and serve him with all your heart.” Joshua 22:5

May 27, 2016

As long as I can conceive something better than myself I cannot be easy unless I am striving to bring it into existence. (George Bernard Shaw, Irish playwright)

Shaw may not have been speaking for everyone, but his comment is certainly a challenge to anyone who is satisfied with the status quo. A lackadaisical attitude about life’s prospect and your ability to make a difference will almost surely accomplish little and may even result in failure. Pursuing tasks that test our ability and stretch our imagination is a worthy venture.

Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure . . . if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things (Philippians 4:8).

May 26, 2016

Be real, because a mask only fools people on the outside. (Alex Gaskarth, singer and song writer)

He continues, “Pretending to be someone you’re not takes a toll on the real you, and the real you is more important than anyone else.” This comment brings to mind the word “hypocrite.” It just sounds like something to be avoided. When we try to fool people, not only do we give them a wrong impression of us, but they don’t get to see who we really are.

My mouth speaks what is true (Proverbs 8:7).

May 25, 2016

Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings. (William Arthur Ward, inspirational writer)

Some days seem to drag on in a dreary fashion—whether we’re suffering from inclement weather or a boring task. How can we turn such days into a more pleasant experience? Ward suggests developing an attitude of gratitude. It’s amazing what a thankful spirit can do for your disposition. Try it; find someone to thank and see how both of you are uplifted.

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you (1 Thessalonians 5:18).

May 24, 2016

Selfless love always desires the best for others. (Alistair Begg, Scottish pastor in America)

Most of what we see and hear about love on television, in the movies, or in modern literature is a pretty emotional, selfish physical attraction. At the slightest provocation it is turned on or off, resulting in broken families and a declining standard of life. Contrast that with the kind of love the Bible speaks of as unselfish, enduring, and beneficial.

We know that “We all possess knowledge.” But knowledge puffs up while love builds up. (1 Corinthians 8:1).