Daily Stop & Thinks

There isn’t any pleasing some people. The trick is to stop trying. (Robert Mitchum, American film actor and singer)

We have all met people who seem never to be satisfied. As Mitchum says, there just is no way to please them. And we sometimes continue to be frustrated because we keep on trying to make them happy. Should we stop trying? Or, should we try to discover what their real desires are and find ways to help meet those needs?

Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. … You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing (Psalm 90:14; 145:16).

To be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness. (Bertrand Russell, 20^th century British philosopher and social critic)

Many people seem to find their security and happiness in their possessions—the stuff they have around them. Russell claims, however, that when we learn to do without some of the things that we think are essential to our well-being—it’s only then that we can become content. We need to understand that happiness is not in what we have but in what we are.

Whoever fears the Lord has a secure fortress . . . for riches do not endure forever (Proverbs 14:26; 27:24).

Fall seven times, stand up eight. (Japanese proverb)

Do you remember when your children or grandchildren were learning to walk? How many times did you urge them to get back up and try again after they’d fallen? Of course, we understand the importance of getting up and moving on. But, when it comes to our failures in life, do we give up too soon? To succeed, we must get up to try once again.

Though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again (Proverbs 24:16).

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet. (James Oppenheim, 19^th & 20^th century American poet, novelist, and editor)

If we’re living as if happiness is a goal that can be achieved only in the distant future, we are missing out on the pleasure that we could be enjoying daily, right now. The “pie in the sky, blessings bye and bye” outlook deprives us of what we can experience in the present. Make every effort to pursue worthy efforts today that will bring joy in fulfillment.

To the person who pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge and happiness (Ecclesiastes 2:26).

A book is a gift you can open again and again. (Garrison Keillor, storyteller, humorist, and radio personality)

Everything is provided for us today in sound bites and on phone apps, so who needs to read? But, even to use the Internet effectively, one must be able to read with understanding. The advantage of print material, as Keillor points out, is you can reread a book as often as you like. In other words the gift of a book keeps on giving.

Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear it and take to heart what is written in it (Revelation 1:3).

The #1 thing we want is happiness/fulfillment. We don’t know how to attain it because what we really want is great relationships. (Mike Lee, American pastor)

In spite of a highly educated, affluent society, many people still seem to be unhappy, even depressed. Lee suggests that the reason may be that they’re aiming at the wrong goal. Happiness is not a goal to pursue; rather, it’s the reward for achieving more worthy objectives. Real joy comes from healthy relationships—with other people and with God.

May the righteous be glad and rejoice before God; may they be happy and joyful. (Psalm 68:3).

Experience is the child of thought, and thought is the child of action. (Benjamin Disraeli, 19^th century British prime minister)

Have you ever been tempted to put off any action until you have thought it through thoroughly and, maybe, had some experience in the planned activity? Many have discovered, however, that they have learned best by becoming involved in activity, experiencing life, and gaining an ability to think more clearly as they take action.

Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice (Philippians 4:9).

Happiness is not easily won; it is hard to find it in ourselves, and impossible to find it elsewhere. (Nicolas Chamfort, 18^th century French writer)

Children seem to be happy most of the time. Infants enjoy playing with their toes or some simple toy. As they grow, everything seems to be fun—at least for a while. But, as we mature, we discover that not everything satisfies—not even our thoughts and desires. It is within ourselves that we must ultimately find personal joy in a spiritual relationship.

Let all who take refuge in you [God] be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you (Psalm 5:11).

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities – brilliantly disguised as insolvable problems. (John Gardner, 20^th century novelist and literary critic)

Sometimes we don’t recognize an opportunity that’s right in front of us because, as Gardner suggests, it may be “disguised” as a problem that we don’t know how to handle. When we learn how to address those problems, we may discover that we have been given an unusual opening to accomplish something unique and beneficial.

Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity (Ephesians 5:15-17).

People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they are not on your road does not mean they have gotten lost. (H. Jackson Brown, American inspirational author)

As you grew up, it didn’t take long, did it, to discover that not everybody is like you? Not everyone has the same tastes and desires, and sometimes we think we’re right and everyone else is wrong, headed in the wrong direction. It would be better to recognize our differences and seek common interests and goals to work together to achieve them.

I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one (Philippians 1:27).

By: Dave Illingworth

Getting it wrong: “No!” yells a congregation member after the worship leader asks if they should sing again the praise song “Draw Close to Me.”

Getting it right: Apostle Paul wrote, “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:2-3)

My father was a Presbyterian minister. As a preacher’s kid, I had a front-row seat to the “worship wars.” How my brothers and I dressed, acted in church, and did in school was always closely watched. My father’s sermons were critiqued weekly, and my mother was expected to constantly entertain and be everyone’s best friend. But the music is what gave me my first taste of church politics and how nasty the worship wars can really be.

In the early ’60s, the church music director resigned, and a younger man was hired. He and my father decided to try something different for the Easter service and brought in trumpets to augment the choir—which created a huge uproar. My father was so upset by the congregation’s criticism of the music that it was many years before he tried anything like that again.

Things haven’t changed. Even after my experiences as a preacher’s kid, I find myself falling into the same trap. After the service, we gather as a congregation outside and whisper to each other, “Did you like the sermon? Interesting? Boring?” or “What did you think of the music?” The older generation wants traditional music; the younger wants praise music. Organ? Piano? Band? Too many songs or too few? I find myself leaving the church service disappointed if it didn’t meet my standards, like I’m some kind of professional critic reviewing a movie.

It seems to me I have forgotten the real war is in the world outside where I am being asked to advance God’s kingdom on earth. I have personal preferences based on my age, upbringing, education, and ethnicity. I realize I need to embrace diversity and recognize that my view of God is too small. I must fight this urge to be a talent judge and instead work together in peace, encouraging other followers.

Maybe I need to act more like Jesus—to use my relationships in church to love rather than judge those conducting the service and to focus my attention on helping those outside the church come to know Jesus and have hope.

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. (Wayne Gretzky, former professional hockey star)

It sounds too simple to be true, but it must not be overlooked. Sometimes we fail to pursue a desired goal because we fear failure. Yet, if we don’t try, we surely won’t succeed. We can also learn valuable lessons from our failures that will make us more likely to succeed the next time. Gretzky no doubt became a better hockey player as he learned from his misses.

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize (1 Corinthians 9:24).