Daily Stop & Thinks

Friendship

No love, no friendship, can cross the path of our destiny without leaving some mark on it forever. (Francois Mauriac, 20^th century French novelist)

How many friends have you had over your lifetime? Not just mere acquaintances, but genuine, close friends. How did each one of them influence you in some significant way? Be grateful for those remembered friends and continue to be motivated by what you recall of them. And, more importantly, be the kind of positive influence your current friends can benefit from in the future.

The godly give good advice to their friends. . . The heartfelt counsel of a friend is as sweet as perfume and incense. . . As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend. (Proverbs 12:26; 27:9, 17)

Change                        

If you really want to escape the things that harass you, what you’re needing is not to be in a different place but to be a different person. (Seneca, first century Roman philosopher)

When things get tough, it just seems natural to want to go someplace where we can escape the problem. People who have tried that have often found that the same—or different—problems find them wherever they go. It often isn’t the place, the circumstances, or the environment that needs to change; it’s us. Introspection, meditation, and personal evaluation is the place to start.

A person with a changed heart seeks praise from God, not from people. (Romans 9:29)

Real Love

The nature of love is to bind itself to the loved one. (G. K. Chesterton, 19^th-20^th century English literary critic)

Love has been the topic of songs, poetry, and drama throughout the centuries. It often means different things to different people in different times. While there are a lot of common threads in its usage, the missing element so often, unfortunately, is commitment. If we practiced the thought that Chesterton shared, what a better life it could be for all of us.

Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. (1 Corinthians 13:7)

Revenge

When you hit back make sure you have got the right man. (from Aesop’s Fables)

It’s just human nature, isn’t it? When someone hits us (literally or verbally), we want to strike back ASAP and with greater intensity. Have you ever noted that sometimes our effort to get even has been misdirected? We hit or verbally slammed the wrong person. Wow, what a tragedy! The better reaction is to “turn the other cheek.”

Never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. (Romans 12:19)

Achievement

Nobody wants to show you the hours and hours of becoming. They’d rather show the highlight of what they’ve become. (Nick Cleveland, minister)

You may be overwhelmed to see the plaque-covered wall of the successful athlete, musician, actor, or any other talented person. What those awards don’t show—but what is behind them—are days and weeks, months and years of practice, rehearsals, maybe even aches and pains. Such worthy achievement requires a massive commitment of time and effort.

Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked so hard to achieve. Be diligent so that you receive your full reward. (2 John 1:8)

The Simple Life

It is the sweet, simple things of life which are the real ones after all. (Laura Ingalls Wilder, 19^th-20^th century American writer)

With the rapidly increasing technology of the 21^st century, we may find it difficult to keep up. As soon as we buy a new smart phone, it’s replaced with a newer, faster, “smarter” version. If we’re trying to keep up, we’re likely becoming frustrated and wish things would slow down a little. That’s not true with simpler, long-lasting things like strong relationships with friends and God.

Make it your goal to live a quiet life. (1 Thessalonians 4:11)

Learning

Knowing trees, I understand the meaning of patience. Knowing grass, I can appreciate persistence. (Hal Borland, 20^th century American author)

Watch carefully and patiently, and you can almost see grass grow. But we’re constantly cutting it. Given rain and sunshine, however, it keeps coming back. It’s different with trees; they take a long time to grow. It’s almost as if they have innate patience and simply can’t rush the process. If we watch and think, we can learn both patience and persistence by observing God’s creation.

Intelligent people are always ready to learn. Their ears are open for knowledge. (Proverbs 18:15)

Living and Learning                      

Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood. (Ralph Waldo Emerson, 19^th century American essayist) 

There is only one way to have experience. You can’t just read about it or see it portrayed on film on in a play. To have experience, you just have to live. And, as Emerson suggests, those encounters can teach us valuable lessons about life itself that we could learn in no other way. So, in addition to enjoying life, it’s a good practice to think and apply its lessons for our growth.

Instruct the wise, and they will be even wiser. Teach the righteous, and they will learn even more. (Proverbs 9:9)

Facing Fear

You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. (Eleanor Roosevelt, 20^th century U.S. first lady)

Although we may be fearful of many things, Roosevelt has suggested that there is value in fear. When we’ve survived a frightening experience, we might well have become stronger and gained confidence in our ability to overcome fear. We’ll face the next tough situation with a sense of security and courage. Let’s not be fearful; ask God for strength and move ahead with courage.

For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7)

Persistence

I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. (Thomas Edison) 

We give Edison a lot of credit for making life easier for us with the invention of electric bulbs, phonographs, movie cameras, storage batteries, and much more. How many times do you suppose he felt like quitting when one of his experiments failed? Unlike many of us, he didn’t give up. He kept trying and success found him still trying. What an example of persistence!

Patient endurance is what you need now (Hebrews 10:36).

We also pray that. . . you will have all the endurance and patience you need (Colossians 1:11).

Memories

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. (Dr. Seuss, children’s writer) 

It’s often only as we look back that we can recognize the significance of an event in the past. We can see now how that particular moment has influenced our present life. And not only have those moments benefited us, as activist Rosa Parks noted, “Memories of our lives, of our works, and our deeds will continue in others.” Be grateful for those precious moments and memories.

I will teach you hidden lessons from our past. (Psalm 78:2)

Leadership

Transformational leaders inspire people to reach for a common goal. (Sam Ranier, public speaker)

When a coach recruits athletes to put together a winning team, he will look for the best talent available. But a group of stellar sportsmen does not necessarily guarantee winning seasons. Too often those “stars” are used to being in the limelight, and they don’t always share success well. The coach has to help them learn to seek team goals not personal achievement.

If God has given you leadership ability, take the responsibility seriously. (Romans 12:8)